the wedding date principle...

would you believe me if i told you, that every woman (and man, for that matter) has the exact love life that she/he wants? well... pragmatically, i think and feel that it's a logical statement. you see... we have control of our lives, and quite frankly, that's reason enough... to have exactly what we want, that is. and yet... we still here people complaining. well, then why? maybe, just maybe... because it is human nature to ask for more... be insatiable... and not content with what they have. we'd hear unfulfilled bits and pieces of a dangling relationship... much of which is, a paramount list of shortcomings of the significant other. the resentment, frustration, and loathing builds up. only for either one to realize, that what they have is actually so much more than what they wanted to begin with... and this realization usually descends upon them at the point when it is either too late, or it's make or break time. now... before you say, it's not working, take time to truly look at what you have, and not just see the object of your discontentment. (good lord! mirror please!) easier said than done, i know... but that's the unadulterated truth of it. you manifest, only what you want... and you may not know it, but... you already have what you want, you just have to open your eyes and look.